December 13th, 2016
Having Trouble Talking About the Election? (A tutorial on GLOP)
Well. OK then. No matter which side you were on (or even if you were one of nearly half the […]
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November 15th, 2016
Can I Use Method III with My Very Young Child?
Even though Method III involves a lot of talking, it often works with young children, even infants. Examples: 1. Scheduled […]
November 15th, 2016
Active E-Listening: Is That Even a Thing?
Leader Effectiveness Training developed in an era when the bulk of workplace communication happened face-to-face. And most workplaces continued in […]
October 25th, 2016
What Will I Learn in Parent Effectiveness Training?
So let’s assume you’re looking for some help with your parenting skills. You’re feeling frustrated and know you need to […]
October 24th, 2016
I-Messages in the No-Problem Area: They’re Not Just for Confrontation
We spend a lot of time, when we do Leader Effectiveness Training, thinking about the top and the bottom of […]
October 17th, 2016
How Do the P.E.T Principles and Christianity Align?
I have used, taught and promoted P.E.T. for more than 40 years. Because some people know that I have also […]
October 17th, 2016
Seven Best Practices for Problem-Solving Meetings
Oh Ye Gods and Monsters, not another <groan> meeting. Admit it. You’ve said that. Or some version of it, only […]
September 28th, 2016
Letting People Know the Real You
In the P.E.T. program, self-disclosing messages are referred to as I-Messages.* An l-Message is a communication about the self — […]
September 20th, 2016
No Conflicts, No Drama. No, REALLY!
One of the reasons it can feel so downright odd, awkward, and alien learning the Gordon Model communication skills is […]
September 13th, 2016
What to Do When You Need to Confront Your Child
So what about you and your needs as a parent? When do your thoughts and feelings get expressed? When and […]