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September 9th, 2015

How to Help your Child to Behave Out of Consideration Rather than Compliance

By: Larissa Dann

Picture this. Your 5 year-old son is playing with figurines in the lounge room. The toys are scattered over the […]

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August 26th, 2015

What Do P.E.T. Kids Have to Say About Being Raised with the Gordon Model? (Part l)*

By: Georgina Watson

(This Blog post kicks of a series of Blogs written by kids of P.E.T.—this first one is actually a video […]

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August 11th, 2015

Everything You Need to Know About Active Listening

By: Georgina Watson

In P.E.T. (Parent Effectiveness Training), parents are urged to recognize that their children often experience problems that belong to […]

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August 6th, 2015

Something Every Parent May Want to Consider When Interacting with Their Child

By: Sheryl Wilde

Charles Darwin. Rosa Parks. Chopin. Bill Gates. Eleanor Roosevelt. Albert Einstein. Warren Buffet. Do you know what all of these […]

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July 28th, 2015

Did You Just Roadblock Me??

By: Georgina Watson

Perhaps you’ve heard of the “Communication Roadblocks”. Did you know that our founder, Dr. Thomas Gordon, created them? They are […]

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July 14th, 2015

When to and When Not to Active Listen to Your Children

By: Georgina Watson

(Excerpted from the P.E.T. Participant Workbook) Active Listening is a powerful tool for helping children express and work through problems […]

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June 23rd, 2015

Bill Gates – Raised by a P.E.T. Father

By: Georgina Watson

Interview by: Andrew Serwer of Fortune Magazine (from their archives) “It’s certainly a unique father-son relationship. The man who created […]

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June 8th, 2015

P.E.T. Skills With The Very Young: You Can Change Behavior You Don’t Like Without Using Punishment

By: Dr. Thomas Gordon

When children’s behavior interferes with their parents’ needs, as it inevitably will, parents naturally want to try to modify such […]

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April 15th, 2015

So Who Owns It: How to Think About Problem Ownership

By: Georgina Watson

(Excerpted from writings from Dr. Thomas Gordon) It isn’t difficult to determine problem ownership. Whoever experiences negative thoughts or feelings […]

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April 8th, 2015

How Did The Behavior Window Come to Be?

By: Georgina Watson

Well, we’re glad you asked. Dr. Thomas Gordon created the Behavior Window in 1962. He was interviewed by a colleague […]

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